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Monday, May 14, 2012
Most of us have a desire to live a drama free life. What do you do if the person you are in a serious relationship with (contemplating marriage) brings “drama” with them. Does that mean they are unprepared for marriage? Could this drama be because they are putting things in order in their life and it is causing a shaking, a sifting?
Personally, I think this may be a good thing. Most of us say we want a mate that is honest and transparent. One of the things taught by my Pastors in the Love and Respect classes is there should be no secrets in a marriage. Well then it only makes sense that we do not want to start the marriage with secrets either. We want our “intended” to feel free to share any and everything with us. That includes the drama. Think about it, has your life been drama free? Is expecting a drama free life even biblical? Doesn’t the word say that in this life we will have trouble? That does not sound drama free to me.
Now I am not saying to connect yourself with someone carrying excess baggage that has not been dealt with. I am saying do not be so quick to disqualify someone from your life because they have some issues they are trying to resolve. Chances are you have a few or your own. The key thing is to seek God first and to have open and honest communication. Ask HIM to reveal to you all that you need to know and how to handle it. HE is faithful.
Peace.
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